Nancy: Intention

Seated yoga poseJanuary, that post-holiday start of a new year, is a natural time to reassess, reprioritize, and reorganize our lives and our writing. Yesterday, Jilly shared her watchword for 2017: publish. Last year I made up my own word (phrase): joie d’ecriture. This year, my watchword/mantra/true north for 2017 is intention.

Intention. It’s not just paving material for the road to hell. It’s having a purpose. Setting goals and focusing on achieving them. Living each day as though it could be your last and knowing you won’t regret having misspent it. That’s all fine and good, you might be saying, but what the hell does it mean? How does one work toward intention?

First, you pick your goal, large or small. You say it out loud, write it down, or both. Then you choose your course of action, your tasks for the day, and the ways you will spend your limited time and energy in service of achieving that intention.

In my case, I’ll be setting my career goals for the year, then laying out the logical steps to reach those goals as part of my annual business plan, as described here. I’ll be looking to those necessary steps to set my weekly writing intentions, and have joined an ‘accountability’ group of writers with whom I’ll share those intentions at the beginning of each week, and my progress or lack thereof at the end of each week.

Each day, I’ll set intentions for writing, but also for other important aspects of life, like connecting with others, spending time volunteering, or even something so small as performing a random act of kindness or making another person smile. When sitting down to write, I’ll consider what I intend to accomplish for that writing session: writing 1,000 words, finishing a scene, untangling a plot problem.

The idea of a life of intention is not a new one. In fact, it’s quite ancient. (If you have lots of hours to spend and a desire to avoid writing go down some rabbit holes, you can type in ‘living with intention’ on your internet search engine of choice.) It’s also not a new concept to me or my writing. I’ve always set goals and laid out how and when to achieve them. So what’s different this time?

This time I’m going to make setting intention – for my life and my writing – a daily practice, a ritual, a habit. I will set my intention(s) each morning and review my progress each night. I will celebrate my successes with a quiet moment of gratitude, and at the same time will forgive myself when I fall short.

If 2016 taught us anything, it’s that life is short, sometimes brutal, and never guaranteed. By setting my intentions and living up to them (or getting as close as possible), I plan to savor each day I am lucky enough to have.

If you want to set up your own practice of intention for your writing or your life, I recommend starting with this how-to article. The big take-aways are to set intentions that are positive, that can grow and evolve, and that (at least to start) are short-term and attainable. Above all, at the end of each day, regardless of how well you’ve done, be kind to yourself and remember tomorrow is another day, and another opportunity to set a positive intention.

 

5 thoughts on “Nancy: Intention

  1. I think a lot of us are very verbal creatures, and the first step towards getting almost anything done is by verbalizing it as an intention. Yeah, I do recognize that sometimes the best things result from happy accidents — but often even those were a result of intention gone awry.

    Wait a minute . . . I started looking for examples of this in my life, and realized that most of my life is about hopping onto an interesting current, and riding it to someplace I never dreamed of before. At eighteen, who knew I’d wind up marrying a farmer and moving to Japan? At 25, I never thought I’d get back into teaching. And ten years ago, writing was something I did when I was younger, and maybe something I’d get into again “one day” — and I’m still riding that particular current with blinders on; I have no idea how far it will take me, but I know the journey isn’t done yet.

    Intention is definitely an oar to steer my little raft with, though. Like a tiller, but less reliable (-:. Once I realized it might be a possiblity, I got my act together, got a job in Japan to see if I could stand the country enough to live there, and wound up following through. My friend said there were interviews coming up for a teaching job, but my intentions got me into business attire for the interview, and got my lessons planned. And as for the writing? Well, I might still be in discovery stage. Intentions can get me from floating around in the dark to a place where I can see the sun rise over the water . . . .

    • Sometimes it’s important and exciting and fortuitous to go where the current takes you, as several of your experiences illustrate. I don’t want to be so beholden to my intentions that I wear blinders and block out opportunities for surprises and creative whims. So I’ll be setting intentions and doing my best to achieve them, but also trying to be flexible enough to know when to go with the flow. Happy discovery and writing in 2017!

  2. I like your word for the year, Nancy—“Intention” seems to fit with mindfulness living, which is something I aspire to and succeed at only rarely and fleetingly. Since Jilly posted her word, I’ve been trying to think of what my word this year would be, but “survive” doesn’t seem either proactive or positive enough! So far, I’m just going to borrow yours, both “publish” and “intention.” They’re good words, and I want those things. Thank you!

    • I am happy to share my word with you :-).

      I think mindfulness is a slightly different but really important concept. To me, that speaks of being in the moment, especially in the sense of appreciating the here and now. Like many writers, I struggle with being that present, as my mind is always creating its own separate narrative about what’s happening in the now and/or working on one of my story projects. Once I get a bit better with the intention thing, I might try some mindfulness as well!

  3. Pingback: Nancy: Today’s Word is Theme – Eight Ladies Writing

Let Us Know What You Think

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s