Once upon a time, a long time ago, I got my MBA. At the time it was the thing to do for those wishing to move up the corporate ladder. I wasn’t in a big hurry to climb that ladder, but I certainly didn’t want to be left behind, so when my co-workers headed off to get their degrees, I followed right along (especially since my employer was footing the bill).
Much of what I learned during the program has been long forgotten or is out-dated. I can’t remember the last time I needed to calculate exchange rates or net present value for my day job (never), and I’m hardly ever asked for my input on organizational structure (which is a shame, because I’ve got some ideas). What stuck with me all this time though are the things I learned in a class called “Managerial Psychology.”
The idea of the class was that, before you could effectively manage others, you needed to be able to understand/manage yourself. We did all kinds of things in that class – Gregorian chanting, guided meditations, readings, discussions – all intended to help us get a better understanding of who we were, what we wanted, and why we made the choices we made. As we learned to “get rid of judgement,”, “watch what is happening,” and “question everything” we also learned how to access our creative potential.
Some people rolled their eyes at the “touchy-feely” nature of the class and did only what was necessary to get through it with a good grade. Others (myself included) went all in – meditating, journaling, visualizing, drawing mandalas, etc. – all with the “anything is possible” mindset. For me it was the most valuable piece of my degree and totally worth the price of admission. As I went back and looked over my class writing assignments in preparation for this blog, I was surprised all over again at how much I learned and the insights I uncovered during the class. I was more creative during that time period than I ever was before or have been since. Poems, stories, book ideas – you name it – all in a ten week period.
“I feel like this class has allowed me to develop and apply a set of tools that have enabled me to see a path I didn’t know I was looking for in order to take a journey I didn’t realize I wanted to take.” ~ from my final class paper
So, that’s great, but what does this all have to do with writing?
One of the most useful tools I came out of the class with is something I like to call “The Question Game.” Around the mid-point of the class, we participated in small focus groups where we each worked on a specific individual problem. The sessions had a statement/question format. Each person started with their problem/statement. The other members then responded with a question and the dialog went back and forth until the problem was resolved, clarity was achieved, or time ran out. There was no judging, just an attempt to reach a level of understanding.
I’m trying to decide whether to get a new job or not.
Why do you want a new job?
My current job is boring.
What part of your job is boring?
Answering the phones all day long.
What part of answering the phones do you find boring?
This same questioning process has been very helpful for me twice lately – once when trying to understand what has been keeping me from writing and then later when looking for a creative solution to a problem scene where my hero was called away from a ballroom to meet with an informant and I couldn’t figure out the who or the why. I used the process to work my way through potential explanations for who the informant was and what information was being passed. The process led me past a number of rejected scenarios, but finally resulted in an answer I had never even considered before, which also jump-started some other new ideas.
So, have you tried this kind of process to jump-start your writing or help you get unstuck? What other tools are in your tool-box?